7 posts tagged “qotd”

Carrie Underwood and Chace Crawford broke up via text message. What do you think: Would you ever break-up with someone by sending a text or email?

Have you ever been on either end of an unrequited love? 
Submitted by 怒涛の鮫.

I've been on both ends. I was the object of love for Stalker. It was difficult not only because he was stalking me, but because I just couldn't make him understand that I just wasn't that into him. He couldn't accept how I felt and that alone means we're not compatible.

In my world, if you love someone you want them to be happy, even if their happiness means having nothing to do with you. Sometimes the best thing you can give to someone you love is freedom, and to give them up.

And so that's why, on some level, I can understand when someone isn't into me - because I've been on the other end. It doesn't hurt any less. I cry; I pine for DK, but what can I do? He doesn't want me, and the best thing I can do for myself and for the man I could have possibly loved the most in my entire life - give him up and not give him grief about it.

What makes your best friend so special? 
Submitted by Jessmiloo.

You want an itemized list about why Matty is so special to me? Matty and I - we just get each other. I can look at him and say nothing, but he knows that I'm thinking about parsley and no one else will get the joke.

We just get each other.

How old were you when you had your very first boyfriend/girlfriend? Do you still know them now? 
Submitted by KIM. 

My first boyfriend was DP in high school. We shared the same birthday and he was/is totally gay.

But this QotD is about the first crush. I went back, back into my childhood. Then I realized - my first crush's name was D, the same name as DK and Mr. F Buddy. And childhood D is the same nationality as DK - Korean.

Must stay away from Korean guys named D. They'll use me and break my heart.

Childhood D lived across the street and I stayed at his house after school until my parents came home. He played the violin and I would watch his mom make kimchi so I could tell my mom how to make it (Mom's little spy). One day we were in the bathroom together and I showed him my boobs. I had none at the time; I was five. He thought it was gross.

Stay away from Korean guys named D. I'll inadvertently show them my boobs.

People do many different things to cope with stress, loss, and "bumps in the road". How do you handle stress and hard times? 
Submitted by RedlyGal. 

Depending on the origin of the stress I'm a (in no particular order):

1. Gym-aholic
2. Alcoholic
3. Food-aholic
4. Cry-aholic
5. Karaoke/Sing-aholic
6. Bitch-aholic
7. Sleep-aholic
8. Workaholic

Right now I'm 3, 4 and 7 with a touch of 6. I'm refocusing to be more 1 and 5.

Tell us a true story that proves it really is a small world after all. 
Submitted by havybeaks.

This is a story about a man. My favorite kind of man. A gay man.

I had a friend in college, RF, who I ran into a year after graduation. We had not kept in touch, but I was so happy to see him and I was introduced to his boyfriend. His boyfriend looked familiar and he said the same of me.

Me: What's your name?
Him: ED
Me: Oh, you do know me. Remember XX Middle School.
Him: OMG!

So, RF was dating a former junior high school classmate of mine. I was his teacher aide.

What are your deal breakers in a relationship?

Since this is Dating LA, I'm going to write about "that" kind of relationship and not general relationships. I have friendship deal breakers, you know.

My "first impression" deal breakers are:

1. Too short
2. Too old (more than 5 years) or too young (more than 2 years) younger than me period.
3. Too muscular or too skinny
4. Creepy, Asia-phile pervert

Here are my deal breakers with persistant exposure:

1. Stupidity - I'm not stupid, so please be smart.
2. Unambitious - Have a goal. It's okay if you take a tumble, but have a plan to get back on your feet.
3. Anti risk-taker - I'm adventurous. I don't need to be shackled to someone who won't try anything new.
4. Arrogant, egomaniac
5. Excessive sarcism - See date N310307
6. Excessive anger, bitching, criticism - I don't sweat the small stuff. Sometimes my ex CG would get pissed off at the tiniest things, then he'd get pissed at me for not getting pissed too. Or when all a guy can do is just bitch, bitch, bitch. Ugh. Can a guy like that ever be happy?
7. Party pooper - whatever the reason: selfconscious, depressed, shy. Cut it out. You're ruining my parade.